Thursday, May 1, 2008

boys...

So I'm in class with twelve boys. I can honestly say that most of the time, they are more girly than I am! :) As much as those boys complain about everything and gripe and such...I'm surprised we ever get anything done! lol. no, they're good guys and its a lot of fun being the only girl. I like to think that I'm atypical and have given them a view of a different type of girl than the super girly ones that dont ever like to get dirty and all that. I'm pretty mouthy, but I've learned to be in class. If you can take it when they dish it to ya, or ya cant dish it back, you just about get eaten alive. that happend to another kid that was in our class and he ended up dropping out. they were pretty harsh on him, but he didnt handle it well either. The other thing ive learned being in class with all boys the past two years is that when it comes time for me to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, they cant be a jealous person. they have to be able to trust me and the fact that though i work with guys, am with guys all day, that the one im with is the person i care about. Both john and nate were jealous of the fact that i have guy friends. I'm im a male dominated field and will continue to be for the rest of my life. I cant change that and dont think that its fair for someone to ask me to because they're insecure with that fact. thankfully, i have found someone that isnt like that. :) i really appreciate zach's ability to trust me even though i hang out with specifically two guys just about every night. you cant have a good relationship without trust, so by the looks of it, we're off to a good start.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello, yeah, I can leave a comment. Study hard, with all boys in your class could be hard. haha
Nice to meet Zach, this weekend. Deb

D said...

What I try to remember for myself-- trust is earned, not deserved. Make yourself trustworthy, and then it really is the other person's issue, or more likely, non-issue!
:-) naye